Personally when it comes to sex before marriage I believe in what the bible says regarding it .. however with a few tweeks. The bible actually has a lot a lot to say about the "s word". However with that being said, the Bible doesn't actually say sex is a bad thing. Why's that ? because God created sex.
So what does the bible say about sex exactly .. like is wrong to have it before marriage ?
Personally I do believe that sex is a sacred, intimate activity which should be done within marriage. The bible does say in Genesis 1 : 27 - 28 "So God created man in his own image [blah blah blahhh] ... God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number" So yes, SEX IS A GOOD THING, as we need it in order to pro-create and make some more humans yalllllllll. Sexual immorality is mentioned quite a lot when we enter the new testament. In Mark 7:20-23 Jesus said "It is what comes out of you that makes you unclean. For from the inside, from your heart, come the evil ideas which lead you to do immortal things, FORNICATION, to rob, kill, commit adultery ...... and do all sorts of evil things - all these evil things come from inside of you and make you unclean"
Now the bible takes into the account sins of sex, remember the story of Sodom and Gomorrah ? They were cities mentioned in Genesis, the New Testament and throughout the Hebrew Bible. These were cities that indulged in immoral acts and served a punishment of undergoing hell fire. Eish ... one place we certainly do not want to go to. When it comes to sex, it is important in my opinion the be sure of who you are having sex with ... SHOUTOUT TO ALL MY VIRGINS THOOO ! I see you Boothangssssss ! Lool, moving on. If you ARE having sex with someone, is it someone you love ? Someone you see yourself having a future with ? Someone who you believe will not destroy your virtue but motivate you to also love christ together ? If the answer is yes ... In my opinion, that's a good thing .. but there is no reason as to why if the answer is 'yes' that the person cannot wait till the both have you are joined as one. However if you are someone who is sleeping around with anyone and everyone when the "temptation" takes over or you start to feel like just being intimate with someone ... yeah that's a problem. Do not .. I repeat .. DO NOT be promiscuous.
I know of manyyyy Christians who are having sex before marriage, and some of them feel its okay , others feel like they are slowly letting Christ down. And its understandable, but I will tell you today. If you WISH to make a change, grow in Christ and you want to stop having sex with your partner, talk to them , and let them know it's to do with your spiritual life .. If they cannot accept that ? God has someone better in life for you. Once that is mentioned it may be more easier to resist temptation and also God will see your heart and see how much love you have for him that you are willing to resist the urge to have sex and move closer with him.
Sex may be enjoyable and give you bodily pleasures, but those pleasures are just temporary. Do not allow sex to be a factor and reason as to why you didn't enter the kingdom of God. Pray to him and he will help you resist the urge to WANT it. When you have God you have all the pleasures you need !
You will not wake up one day to sex not existing, and your vagina or penis gone. Lool Theres plenty of time for sex booothangg ! Save it for someone who not only has your heart but also has the heart of Christ dwelling within them. Don't be fooled into giving yourself away to just ANYBODY who doesn't value you. And if you HAVE been promiscuous in the past, people may have judged you, but who says you can't still call on God to help you become better. We cannot rely on our on strength to push through things alone ... Have a talk with God, he's always there and is always listening.
"Commit your way to the LORD; trust in Him and He will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun" - Psalm 37 : 5-6
We may all be different ... but save yourself , your special day is coming and you will enjoy it and multiply !The Lord is your strength, hang in there !
sairassecret
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